When I first started Behave Your Best, I kept thinking back to the countless moments I had seen parents in stores, classrooms, or playgrounds—doing their best, but unintentionally escalating their child’s behavior. What I wanted to give them wasn’t judgment, but tools. Something simple, affordable, and effective that they could use right away to create more peace at home.
That’s why I created my De-Escalation Digital Program. It’s a straightforward, self-paced program designed to help you handle your child’s meltdowns and challenging behaviors with calm and confidence. And unlike other parenting programs that might take weeks or months to get through, this one starts working the moment you hit “play” on the very first video.
How Our De-Escalation Digital Program Works
Step 1: Get Started
Purchase our De-Escalation Digital Program for $79 and check your inbox. You’ll immediately receive my core training video, “How to De-Escalate Your Escalated Child.” This video walks you through the foundational strategies that I’ve taught hundreds of families, providing you with practical, compassionate tools you can start using in your daily interactions right away.
Step 2: Build Your Toolbox with Daily Support
Over the next six days, I’ll send you one email each day, each with a new layer of support. Think of these as me guiding you through the process, step by step. These emails include resources, worksheets, videos, and tip sheets that you can print or keep digital—whatever works best for your family.
Here’s what’s included:
- Discover Your “Light Switch”: You’ll learn how to recognize and manage your own emotional “light switch” so that you’re better able to support your child when their switch goes off.
- Breathing & Heart Rate Videos: Quick, simple exercises to calm your body in the heat of the moment.
- Silent Support Checklist: A guide to reflect on how you’re applying strategies without escalating the situation further.
- Doses of Attention Tip Sheet: How to use your attention wisely to encourage the behaviors you want to see more of.
- 5 Tips to Talk Less: Because sometimes the hardest (and most powerful) thing is to stop explaining and let your calm presence do the work.
Step 3: Practice and Reflect
The next time your child displays unwanted behavior, try one of the strategies. Then take a breath and reflect with the Silent Support checklist. No one expects perfection—it’s about noticing what worked, what didn’t, and adjusting the next time. Over time, you’ll see your child’s meltdowns shorten, your own stress decrease, and your confidence grow.
Step 4: Keep It Visible
I always encourage parents to print the tip sheets and post them where you’ll see them daily: the fridge, a bulletin board, or even your bathroom mirror. If you don’t have access to a printer, just save them on your phone and set a reminder to revisit them. Small visual cues go a long way in helping us from “knowing” to “doing.”
Step 5: Enjoy Your Progress
As you put these tools into practice, you’ll notice your home feels calmer. Your child begins to respond differently. You feel more in control—not because you’re controlling your child, but because you’re guiding them through challenges with patience and consistency. Take a moment to smile, high-five your co-parent, and celebrate the fact that you’re creating the peaceful home you’ve always wanted.
Who Our De-Escalation Digital Program Is For
The Parent Who Has Tried Everything
Maybe you’ve invested in other parenting programs without the results you hoped for. This program is different—it’s short, practical, and designed to be implemented right away.
The Parent Who Thinks Things Aren’t “Bad Enough”
If you’ve found yourself Googling “how to handle tantrums” or dreading daily routines, that’s enough. Don’t wait for behavior to disrupt your schedule, your child’s learning, or their relationships before getting support.
Only $79?
I get asked this a lot—why offer something this comprehensive at such an affordable price? The answer is simple: I want every parent to have access to these tools. I designed this program for the mom in Target stretching her grocery budget with a 5% discount card. I designed it for the parent who has already invested time and money into parenting programs without the relief they deserve. And I designed it so that busy parents can complete it at their own pace, without deadlines or added stress.
Because every family deserves a peaceful home. And you deserve the confidence that comes from knowing what to do when your child’s “light switch” goes off.
